I’ve never felt that there was an “us” or “we” with anyone in my life. I’ve always felt like an outsider. Family is nice. Friends are nice. Even the odd acquaintance is nice. That’s where it ends. Even though I … Continue reading
This is a like war in my mind. I’m naturally quiet and overly observant. I see things that people, I’m sure, intended to be subtle. Yet, I catch it and do not know whether to question the person or let … Continue reading
I usually spend the Fourth of July with my family and we spend it here at home. People sometimes stop by so we have enough food for them. I get to see my brother and his family and maybe my other … Continue reading
On a Social Anxiety* forum, I recently came across a post about people who have Avoidant Personality Disorder (AvPD). The topic creator wanted to know about people who are in their 40s and 50s and how they are coping with … Continue reading
The new year is approaching. To make it quick, here are a few things you can add to your list as an unsocial person. Be social. Yes, be social. There are many options out there. I’m not saying dive … Continue reading
It’s this time of year that I start tearing up at not having many friends. It’s part by choice and part by the way I am. I can be a bit picky and over the years I’ve learned that my … Continue reading
Thanksgiving’s end mean Christmas’ time to shine. Many reasons to love Christmas, including family. I will use those tips from the previous Thanksgiving post, and include more for actually including people. There are various ways that you can have enjoy … Continue reading
Before reading: This is my view as an introvert and a person with social anxiety. Sometimes, I just want to enjoy my holidays alone or with a few of those who are near and dear. And I do mean a … Continue reading
I think the dead give away that I am not very confident is my constant need to apologize for what I say and do. I do not particulary feel this is a requirement, but still, I tend to do things … Continue reading
There are times when I feel like being social. I feel like getting out, chatting and catching up with old mates, maybe meeting new people. Those are rare occasions, but the desire does come up here and there and I … Continue reading
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